Need info for Tranny and TOD fluid and Filter change..

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Can I get some facts from the experts before beginning this adventure?
Mobil 1 Product for Tranny and TOD?
Filter and Gasket Specifics for tranny? Buy from Isuzu or other location and Go with Cork or Neophrene gasket composite?
Capacity-Quarts that go in tranny if flushed and filter change?
Capacity-Quarts that go in TOD.
Tool used for flushing Tranny and where to get?
Filler or pump gadgets to assit refill?

Also any reco on radiator flush tools and type of antifreeze or mixtures for my Daytona Beach driving?
Thanks