Jack, this is sad news indeed. When I saw the title of your post my heart dropped as I had a feeling about what was coming. I know that the decision to sell the VX was VERY hard for you, but that just means that there is another/better one in your future.
I'm sorry that you're going through this little "test" now, but you're good people and I know you'll pull through and come out the other side an even better person.
If there is ANYTHING that I can do for you don't hesitate to PM, email or call.
P.S. - Could Whit sell her car and keep the VX?
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