Cece and I are glad your okay. I would insist on new cladding for the rear door and rear bumper if I were you. "It wasn't like that before you hit me" should work quite well. When my VX was hit the first year I owned it, I had the front bumper cladding replaced and still have the old one (minor scuff from the retard that hit me) sitting in the garage. Hope it all works out to your advantage and that you are both well. Take care and see in Moab 2011!!!