Welcome to the forum.
That is an interesting first post there my friend.
Couple of points -
First up - 15 - 17 MPG city is damn good for one of these.
You don't mention what size tyres you run, or what you use the VX for, but if you are going higher gearing, then I guess you don't offroad, and you run standard tyres??
Second - if you only change one diff, don't ever put it in 4wd, because you will break something.
As for ratios, sorry but I don't know of any higher gear sets for our diffs. Others might, and I am sure they will chime in.
You could try searching the forum for "diff ratios" etc.
Regards
PK