I don't know about the flashing rear wheel lights, but when the TOD is in the "Auto" mode it should work like the US spec TOD which does not push power to the front wheels until the rear wheels start to slip. Over here, like others have said, we are in TOD mode all the time and when we take off from a light just the rear wheels are lit up on the display until about 5 to 7 miles per hour, at which point the first bar on the front wheels light up. When this happens I still don't think that there is any power going to the front wheels, but the TOD is ready to send power forward. If we get on some gravel, or ice, and start to spin the back wheels the TOD will then push power to the front wheels and all three bars on the front wheels on the display will light up but only for a second until the rear wheels stop spinning then the front wheels on the display go back to having one bar lit up.
Hopefully one of the JDM owner's will chime in soon.
Oh, and welcome to the group.
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