OK...This morning got deep into the wiring under the dash. Checked all of the connections moved wires around tightened up and cleaned everything I could find and........it started.
Not sure exactly what was loose but she is alive.
It was most definitely a wiring or connector problem I just wish I knew exactly what I did.
Bunches of thanks to everyone who offered support and advice it kept me sane.
Did that fix your dash indicator lights as well??
3" suspension lift, shocks: Rancho 9000, tires 33"x11.5", wheels 16"x8", offset= 0, no front sway bar