Speaking of reflecting... My suggestion...
My life improved with this simple act & I am able to get through threads way faster now! I was able to read all of this thread in under an hour & I did not once get pissed off! Both are quite a feat considering the parties involved! Of course, every time someone is quoted I have the option of reading that which was once hidden. Still, reading one of those quotes is kind of like, "Read one you've read them all." after 5 years of this crap. On the flip-side - there are about 40 people in my "buddies" list... again, quite a feat considering the parties involved.