After searching the forums and reading the feedback on different shock options I decided to go with the 9000xls. At the same time I put some 1 1/2 Daystar springs spacers on the back and leveled the front using the T bars.
All I can say is HOLY CRAP! its 10 times better than it was. I have the rears at 4 and the fronts set to 5. It makes it a pleasure to drive now.
If anyone is on the fence on this upgrade and your main reason for doing it is improving ride quality then I think you will feel your money is well spent.
With the lift!
A before picture for compare...