I can't help but notice how helpful the members have been in this thread -what a good bunch.
From my experience (after living in NC for 6+ years), it's been my favorite state. I love the weather, foliage, culture (except Nascar), and all of the quaint little towns/suburbs. I was actually looking for a job in NC when I was contacted about my current position.
The Triangle will put you comfortably out of range of all but the most devastating hurricanes -which could be comforting.