I've spent over an hour trying to remove the 3 prong connector from the head lamps so that I can install Tone's HID conversion kit. I lost a little skin and a little patience, but couldn't get that darned connector off. I even removed the battery to make the job a little easier.

Any tips? I was trying to squeeze the sides of the connector where it starts getting small 'cause it feels like there's a little give (a clip?), but that didn't seem to do any thing. Am I squeezing the right place? My fingers are average sized and I don't think I can force my finger between the rubber boot and the connector any further.