1) Very important. Bearings that aren't properly lubricated will heat up to very high temperatures, potentially causing damage to your hub, rotor, and axle.
2) It's not that hard. Any qualified mechanic SHOULD be able to do this without messing anything up. Always take your VX to someone you know and trust if you're not doing the service yourself.
3) Any high-temp grease will work fine.
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